BLOG: Why Americans Overwork

The greatest threats [to my relationship with Jesus] are the constant BUSYNESS AND FRANTIC HURRY THAT DEMAND MY ALLEGIANCE. - Fil Anderson.

On Sunday I read you several quotes, but this one could not be more important to us:

"If you live in North America, you are a prime candidate for slow death by overstimulation. Your environment is busy depleting you with noise, distractions, and the compulsion to always be in a hurry. If I had set out to destroy my identity as a beloved child of God, I couldn’t have done better than living in America at the start of the 21st century. The greatest threats I’ve encountered are not the arguments of skeptics or the lure of drinks, drugs, or sex. The greatest threats are the constant BUSYNESS AND FRANTIC HURRY THAT DEMAND MY ALLEGIANCE…We rarely are grounded in the present moment (where God is to be encountered) because we’re always rushing out beyond it or replaying in our minds our disappointing past. Shame and sadness over our dark past drive us to strive for a brighter future, which generally winds up being busier rather than better." - Fil Anderson in Running On Empty. 

In her book, The Overworked American, Juliet Schor points out that the United States now leads Japan as the longest-working nation in the industrialized world and is the most vacation-starved country in the world.  Americans in general work longer hours with less vacation for more years than any other industrialized culture.

BUT WHY?

According to Tim Keller, in his sermon "Work and Rest", there are 4 things that coordinate to create this dynamic:

a.) Work security is very low. Whole departments can be shut down if they’re not profitable. There are hostile takeovers on the regular. New technology is making jobs and skills obsolete overnight, making thousands of jobs unnecessary. The pressure to be profitable is stronger than loyalty to employees, and so companies will fire anyone. So we’re staying at our jobs shorter time and we’re not guaranteed to keep our job. Knowing we live precariously, we work harder and harder to prove our value to our employers to increase our job security. Taking time off lets my boss see if she can live without me. Missing deadlines line me up for a dead end. This is exacerbated among the 10,000s start-ups, which operate with a skeleton staff and the risk of failure. 

B.) Income Distribution – Those at the top of companies used to make 20-30 times what the lowest employees made, but now that number is 200-500 times. This means that the people at the top are making such astronomical sums of money, they are expected to put in ridiculous hours. If they don’t put in the hours, there is a long line of people waiting to take their job in order to avail themselves of the huge paychecks. At the bottom, people are making less than a living wage, and so they have to take multiple jobs to make ends meet, meaning they are putting in more hours. To justify their paychecks, the people at the top work all the time. To make their bills, the people at the bottom work all the time. 

C.) Technology – We can now work anywhere, so we work everywhere. We set up our laptops on vacation. We even carry our cell phones into the bathroom. Do you remember the first time you heard of someone installing a telephone in their bathroom? I learned to fish with a real estate agent at the beach, and I remember the first time we fished together, he was taking calls and answering emails out in the middle of the salt marsh, while wrestling flounders. I thought he was insane, until this summer, I found myself coordinating volunteers and speakers for the ARISE retreat, from a boat in the salt marsh, while wrestling a flounder.

D.) Identity Crisis – More than any civilization in the history of the world, we have dissociated ourselves with that traditional sources of identity. In traditional cultures, your identity comes from your relationship in a family or the community – You are so and so’s son. You are a dad or a mom. You aren't just a blacksmith, but you are THE blacksmith in Clayton or the Barber in Smithfield, forcing you into community and accountability. Now, we are the first civilization in the history of humanity to say, you need to look deep inside you and find your true identity and then your success, your worth, your approval is based on your ability to accomplish that. If you feel like you should be a singer, but you can’t cut it on Broadway or the Billboard charts, then you are a failure and you have no secondary source of worth to fall back on. You have no foundation of self-value to lean into. If you are good at your job, then your worthy, but if not, then you have no value and no secure worth. So we look more and more to our work and our professional success to prove our worth. This is true even of those of you who do not work professionally. Stay at home parenting has turned into a competitive sport in the United States thanks to social media and Pinterest. Retirement competition is a growing fight.

But what is the cure?

The cure is to rest in Jesus. To rest in Jesus is to be completely satisfied with his finished work on the cross. Trust his work, rather than trying to impress him with yours. Get your identity from Jesus not from work. When you do that, you will rest as an act of trust and an act of liberty.

Listen to the whole Oakland Sermon - "Are You Too Tired to Rest?" here. 

 

BLOG – A House Blessing

This week, I was asked to bless a new home. It was awesome. Claire and I have prayed over every single house we’ve lived in. We’ve walked room by room through an empty house and prayed for the people who would inhabit that particular room or the things we hoped would happen there. We prayed for the ministry we’d do and the people we’d host.

In another friend’s house, we wrote on the sub flooring before carpet went down. We wrote permanent prayers for the children on their bedroom and the kitchen under the tile. It was awesome.

Where we live is holy, and Jesus cares deeply. He spent many nights and hours and meals in people’s homes. Your house is holy. It is a ministry center and a mission outpost for Jesus’ Kingdom. He wants to use it to love, bless, and evangelize people in your life. Do you think about it that way? Does Jesus’ mission to seek and save that which was lost, to host those who are cast out, and to heal the divisions of this sinful world define your home more than the latest fashions on HGTV? I pray you tap into Jesus’ dreams for your homes even as you thoughtfully decorate and purchase and enjoy your home.

“From one man he made all the people of the world. Now they live all over the earth. He decided exactly when they should live. And he decided exactly where they should live.” Acts 17:26 NIrV

As I prepared to go bless this person’s home, I found the following liturgy. I loved the guidance it provided as you move through your home. Why not pray over each room this week? 

Leader: “Peace be to this house and: to all who dwell here, in the name of the Lord. All: Blessed be God forever.

Leader: When Christ took flesh through the Blessed Virgin Mary, he made his home with us. Let us now pray that he will enter this home and bless it with his presence. May he always be here among us; may he nurture our love for each other, share in our joys, comfort us in our sorrows. Inspired by his teachings and example, let us seek to make our home before all else a dwelling place of love, diffusing far and wide the goodness of Christ.

Reader: A reading from the letter of Paul to the Colossians
You are God’s chosen race, his saints; He loves you, and you should be clothed in sincere compassion, in kindness and humility, gentleness and patience. Bear with one another; forgive each other as soon as a quarrel begins. The Lord has forgiven you; now you must do the same. Over all these clothes, to keep them together and complete them, put on love. And may the peace of Christ reign in your hearts, because it is for this that you were called together as parts of one body. Always be thankful. Let the message of Christ, in all its richness, find a home with you. Teach each other, and advise each other, in all wisdom. With gratitude in your hearts sing psalms and hymns and inspired songs to God; And never say or do anything except in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him. The word of the Lord.

All: Thanks be to God.

After the scripture reading, all go from room to room, offering prayers of intercession and sprinkling holy water, if desired. Some of the following prayers may be used.

At the entrance:
Leader: O God, protect our going out and our coming in; Let us share the hospitality of this home with all who visit us, that those who enter here may know your love and peace. Grant this through Christ our Lord.

All: Amen.

In the living room:
Leader: O God, give your blessings to all who share this room, that we may be knit together in companionship. Grant this through Christ our Lord.

All: Amen.

In the kitchen:
Leader: O God, you fill the hungry with good things. Send your blessing on us, as we work in this kitchen, and make us ever thankful for our daily bread. Grant this through Christ our Lord. All: Amen.

In the dining room:
Leader: Blessed are you, Lord of heaven and earth, for you give us food and drink to sustain our lives and make our hearts glad. Help us to be grateful for all your mercies, and mindful of the needs of others. Grant this through Christ our Lord.

All: Amen.

In the bedrooms:
Leader: Protect us, Lord, as we stay awake; watch over us as we sleep, that awake we may keep watch

with Christ, and asleep, we may rest in his peace. Grant this through Christ our Lord. All: Amen.

In the bathroom:

Leader: Blessed are you, Lord of heaven and earth. You formed us in wisdom and love. Refresh us in body and in spirit, and keep us in good health that we might serve you. Grant this through Christ our Lord

All: Amen.

Leader: Let us pray the prayer that our savior taught us.
All: Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed by thy name; thy kingdom come; thy will

be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread; and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil.

Leader: Be our shelter, Lord, when we are at home, our companion when we are away, and our welcome guest when we return and at last receive us into the dwelling place you have prepared for us in your Father’s house, where you live forever and ever.

All: Amen.

Leader: May the peace of Christ rule in our hearts (+), and may the word of Christ in all its richness dwell in us, so that whatever we do in word and in work, we will do in the name of the Lord. All: Amen.

BLOG – Why We Sing Hebrews

The author of Hebrews knows his Bible better than all of us. He has learned it through study and sermons, but also through singing. We can see this immediately in Hebrews. Based on its singsong yet technical language, Hebrews 1:3 very likely quotes an early Christian hymn about Jesus. Then in Hebrws 1:5-14, he stacks up 7 different quotations from the Old Testament, and what is amazing is that  5 of them are from the Psalms and 1 of them is from the Song of Moses. So 6 of 7 quotations are lyrics in Biblical songs.

These Biblical Songs were compiled together in the Greek Psalter or Hymnal. You see, in their Greek speaking synagogues, the Jewish Hymnal was made up of the Psalms plus several other songs from the Old Testament including the Song of Moses. Greek speaking Jews all over the Mediterranean and Middle East sang these songs Saturday after Saturday. After they became Jesus’ disciples, Christians took up these songs in their own Sunday worship.

So, the Preacher knows these words, and the Hebrew Church knows these words because they sing them week after week. That is why singing is so important. Fortunately or unfortunately, we get most of our theology from the songs we sing, and so Hebrews stacks up these songs to explain who Jesus is. This is why we sing every week. This is why we carefully choose the songs we sing each week.

You may well remember my sermon, and you might even quote my sermon, but I’d bet good money, you aren’t going to thoughtlessly start singing it when you get anxious or excited. But there is a lot more chance that you will hum “Amazing Grace” or sing into the despair, “I’m no longer a slave to fear, I am a child of God.” This is why we all know the words to “Amazing Grace,” but none of us can quote a single sermon from the same century.

So what are you singing these days? What songs tell you who you are and whose you are? Personally, I love music, and I love country music (except modern country, it’s an abomination), but there is a big problem when “A Country Boy Can Survive” forms more of my identity than “Jesus Loves Me This I Know.”

Don’t miss the opportunity to hide truth in your heart, so that when you reach for a song to explain your experience or combat your fears or express your joy, Scripture is on your lips.

Here are some resources to listen to Scripture:

Shane and Shane – Psalms and Psalms II – These are my favorites. Two guys with strong voices and excellent harmony.

Sandra McCracken – Psalms – This is Claire’s favorite.

Seeds Family Worship  – These songs are direct quotations of Scriptures designed for families. This is a great resource for memorizing Scripture.

POST: Why We Party On Easter

Think of the times we party. Now think of the times we absolutely lose our mind in celebration. When Carolina wins a National Title, there is a riot on Franklin Street with trash fires and flipped cars. When Duke wins, students dance around huge bonfires built from all the wooden benches on campus. When Philly wins a Super Bowl no one and no street lamp is safe. When the Allies defeated Germany and Japan, the streets flooded with strangers kissing and dancing together.

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We party on Easter, because Easter is the greatest day in history. Greater than National Championships or even National Victories. Jesus defeated more than Germany, he defeated the actual Axis of Evil. Jesus stomped out more than the Blue Devils, he crushed the actual Devil. He defeated Death and Sin and Hell. All our enemies have been conquered and they now fight a retreating, losing, guerilla battle against God’s Elect.

We party because Jesus wins. The day Jesus died was the worst day in history – God came close enough for us to hug him or hurt him, and we nailed him to a tree, and yet we now call the day “Good Friday” and wear miniature versions of the torture device as jewelry. Why? Because God transformed the worst moment in human history into the best moment – the moment our salvation was accomplished and our sin – the very sin of nailing Jesus – was forgiven.

Easter proves it. Our sin is forgiven, our sentence served, our debt is paid and the empty tomb proves the super abundance of God’s provision. Sin does not win. The devil will not win in your life or your marriage. Brokenness is not final. Pain is not pointless. All crosses, both the ones we suffer and the ones we built, will end in resurrection. That is the point of our art projects, which transform trash into treasure. We built beauty from all recycled materials to remind us that our brokenness too will be transformed.

So we party. And maybe, must one day, our children, our youth, and ourselves will wake up after years away from church, in the midst of immense spiritual agony, and remember a little brick church that parties every Easter, because Jesus is alive, and there is hope for all broken people. Our children may not remember Sunday School lessons or sermons, but hopefully they remember art projects and shouts of victory.

Party on Children. Party on.

BLOG – Ash Wednesday and Giving Up Something for Lent

This Wednesday is Ash Wednesday, which starts the season of Lent leading up to Easter. Practically that means for the next 6 weeks you’ll hear lots of people complaining or humble-bragging about “giving up ____.” You’ll be at the office and offer someone a homemade chocolate chip cookie, only to hear, “I can’t I gave up chocolate for Lent.” You’ll go to lunch meeting and someone will order a salad because, “I gave up meat for Lent.” People will moan about all kinds of things from Diet Coke to cussing, but what is Lent?

Lent and Ash Wednesday are not in the Bible, but for two millennia, Christians have found it helpful to take the 40 days before Easter to focus on Jesus by starting, restarting, or emphasizing certain spiritual practices, such as Bible Study, Private Prayer, Generosity, Celebration, Meditation, Journaling, Serving, Secrecy, or Silence.

Each of these exercises, also called disciplines, is a routine built into the rhythm of life to cultivate a love for Christ, a faith in Christ, and a character like Christ. The exercise of Bible Study floods my mind with messages from Jesus teaching me how Jesus feels about me. The exercise of Secrecy, in which I do kind things or spiritual things without anyone knowing about them, teaches me humility and helps me die to my constant need for approval. The exercise of Generosity, fights my innate greed, while training me in compassion and growing my faith as I find God is faithful to take care of my needs.

Likewise, the phrase, “giving something up for Lent”, and the accompanying practice is really just the cultural remnants of an ancient spiritual exercise called Fasting. Fasting is the crossfit of spiritual disciplines. Simply put, when I fast, I don’t eat and then I use my hunger to remind me to pray because I need Jesus more than food (discipline of Prayer). When I fast, I use my meal times for Bible study to feast on God’s Word (discipline of Study), and I give the money I did not spend food to the hungry (discipline of Generosity). When I fast, I don’t tell anyone I am fasting (discipline of Secrecy), and when asked if I’m going to eat, I simply respond, “I already ate before I came,” because I feasted on Jesus’ Word.

During Lent i.e. the 6 weeks from Ash Wednesday to Easter, Christians will commit to one or more of these practices to remind them to talk to Jesus and savor his resurrection. They will get up early for a devotional or they will serve one day a week at a soup kitchen or they will simplify their diet by giving up chocolate or they will abstain from all food for one day a week. Whatever their commitment, it is best if it is regular, scheduled, and quantifiable. The goal is not suffering, but increased spiritual awareness.

I strongly encourage you to practice some new or old disciplines and routine this Lent. You can learn more about spiritual disciplines and Lent on line or in my favorite book, Celebration of Discipline by Richard Foster. If you don’t know where to start, “Giving up something for Lent” is not a bad place. Every time you want that thing, crave that thing, or go without that thing, instead of complaining to your friend, talk to Jesus about what is going on in your day and all he has done for you.

This sermon on Fasting and the Spiritual Disciplines is one of the best things I have heard in a long time. Please take time to download it and listen to it.

 

Forget Yourself | Fasting | John Ortberg from Menlo.Church on Vimeo.

Blog – Women of the Reformation

The most famous names of The Protestant Reformation are probably Martin Luther, John Calvin, and Ulrich Zwingli, but they were not solitary figures unsupported. There were thousands of people compelled to explain and defend the gospel of Jesus Christ. 

I recently found this great article about several women vital to the reclamation of the Gospel in the 15th century. May it encourage you, women and men, to be brave and courageous in your spiritual journey. 

 

 

Five Important Women of the Reformation You Should Know About

Planned Giving and Family Budget Meeting

 

Dear Family,

God is using you to change lives, yours included. You all are incredible. Oakland exists to make Jesus famous by making more and better disciples. We Prize Presence, Serve Hard, Always Grow, Leave Legacy, and make One More Disciple. That is our P.S.A.L.M. It is how we do church.

            While we labored in 2017, God provided increase. We’ve added over 42 New Members and baptized 2 teenagers who’ve put their trust in Jesus, and 1 infant we pray will come to trust Jesus. We’ve seen at least 6 people become Christians by accepting Jesus as their Lord and Savior. We sent 24 people on Mission Trips, donated over 5000lbs of food, and packed 18,500 meals for hungry families around the world.

            In worship, we’ve seen the growing involvement of our youth as musicians, choir members, and special music soloists. We’ve seen more adults eager to sing special music in worship and serve as liturgists. Our choir, under Keeley’s tutelage, is singing music as difficult as any in the last 3 years with growing confidence and excellence. We have so many children on an average Sunday, that we have two Children’s Church classes and fill the entire steps nearly every week. There are 20 students at Youth on the average Sunday Night learning to see Jesus in pop-culture and in the Bible, all while experiencing full, abundant life.

            Through August 31, 2017, we’ve paid $136,625 off our mortgage through our PullingTOGETHER campaign, leaving $352,350 to go. Our community needs Oakland more than ever. They need our building more too. The number of organizations requesting meeting space at Oakland increased dramatically over 2017. By year end, we anticipate that 60% of all meetings at Oakland will be hosted by outside organizations. There frankly is no other affordable space available. By year end, we will spend more than $25,000 to host and support these organizations.

             To make sure we are able to make more and better disciples in 2018, we once again need a financial commitment from you.  Commitment to the church, through our annual giving, is vital to the work of the church. Your gifts support our youth and children’s ministries, Scouts, mission trips, local mission partnerships, evangelism, outreach, worship, fellowship, facilities costs, staff salaries, and more. For our joy, God calls each of us to return to Him from our first fruits a portion of the many blessings He gives to us, not the dollars that are left over after we spend for ourselves.

            We ask that you return the attached Planned Giving Card ASAP or email treasurer@oaklandpresbyterianchurch.org with information about your planned giving for 2018. Please be in prayer over the coming days and weeks to give God an opportunity to put in our hearts what He calls each of us to give, for “Each man should give what he has decided in his heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.” (2 Cor 9:7)
Included with this letter is a Planned Giving Card and a Family Budget worksheet. For your joy, we pray you will craft a Budget and include a regular percentage gift to Oakland. Knowing how much you plan to contribute to Oakland in 2018 allows us to better plan for our new ministry growth.

Finally, many of you are already giving to the PullingTOGETHER Campaign at a sacrificial level, but if not, we again invite you to consider contributing sacrificially to the Building Fund, which is used to pay off our remaining mortgage debt.

            In Christ,  Andrew Ruth, Pastor

EXTRA SERMON: Another Sermon on How Jesus changes our Day Job

For the last 6 weeks, we asked, "Why Work?" Why work exists, why work is sacred, why work is broken, why work hurts, why work is redeemed, why work is redemptive?

We were guided by a book called, Every Good Endeavor by Timothy Keller. In the following talk, you'll here Timothy Keller explain 5 of the greatest implications for how the Gospel changes our work. It is really worth your 27 minutes, while you cook dinner or fold clothes.

 

1. “Faith gives you an inner ballast without which work could destroy you.”

2. “Faith gives you a concept of the dignity and worth of all work, even simple work, without which work could bore you.”

3. “Faith gives you a moral compass without which work could corrupt you.”

4. “Faith gives you a world and life view that shapes the character of your work, without which work could master and use you.”

5. “Hope.”

EXTRA SERMON – Why Work? – Why Business Matters to God?

One of the best curated resources for thinking and talking about how our faith in Jesus should our job in the world is The Center for Faith and Work. They produce blogs, podcasts, conferences, and books.

This talk by Jeff Van Duzer, the Dean of Business and Economics School at Seattle Pacific University, is one of the best talks I have ever heard. I've already shared it a dozen times.

 

If you'd rather listen to this talk as a podcast on your phone, it is available in Apple Podcast here.