An Excerpt From The Meaning of Marriage by Timothy Keller

For the last few weeks, I've been recommending the two books on marriage and one novel about the powerful effects of gracious love in a marriage listed below. The chief book I've recommended is The Meaning of Marriage by Timothy and Kathy Keller. Below is a provocative excerpt from the book and a link to a longer excerpt. Check it out, and see if it won't challenge you like it challenged me, to in the famous words of the Rolling Stones, "Love the one you're with." 

The Meaning of Marriage by Tim Keller

Sacred Marriage by Gary Thomas

Redeeming Love (A Novel) by Francine Rivers

"In other words, some people in our culture want too much out of a marriage partner. They do not see marriage as two flawed people coming together to create a space of stability, love and consolation, a “haven in a heartless world,” as Christopher Lasch describes it. Rather, they are looking for someone who will accept them as they are, complement their abilities and fulfill their sexual and emotional desires. This will indeed require a woman who is “a novelist/astronaut with a background in fashion modeling,” and the equivalent in a man. A marriage based not on self-denial but on self-fulfillment will require a low- or no-maintenance partner who meets your needs while making almost no claims on you. Simply put—today people are asking far too much in the marriage partner." Timothy Keller in The Meaning of Marriage

Read a longer excerpt HERE.

Recent Book Recommendations

Lately, I've recommended several books from eh pulpit. Reading has historically been one of the great tools for spiritual and theological growth in Christian lives. In fact, Christians historically supported and even provided public education to insure every child learned to read and write, so that they would have access to the incredible riches of the Scriptures and the Church's writings. While our culture is no longer the print-based society it once was, reading and meditating on that reading is still an awesome way to grow in the knowledge and faith of Christ. One of my first mentors used to ask me every time we met, "What are you reading?" Too which, he'd always follow up, "If you want to be a Spiritual Leader, you've got to always be reading." I was 18 at the time and hated reading, but slowly, I plodded through. 
So here are the recommendations, I made recently. 

Books for Lent

The Prodigal God

The Prodigal God is an extended meditation on the Parable of the Prodigal Father and Sons found in Luke. This is an incredible book for anyone looking to deepen or clarify their understanding of the Christian Gospel. Timothy Keller is clear, concise, and compelling; often swinging convicting sledgehammers of truth followed by soothing balms of gospel healing. I've read this book 4 times in the last year (3 times in 6 months). 

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Celebration of Discipline

This book is a Christian Classic designed to teach Christians the skills (disciplines) they need to grow in grace and faith. This really is a primer for the basic practices of the Christian life, including prayer, fasting, study, meditation, simplicity, solitude, service, confession, worship, guidance, and celebration. I love how Richard Foster surveys the Biblical verses, Church history, and modern practices to show the benefits of each discipline and the ways we can apply them in our lives. If you want to grow in PRACTICING your faith, in living it out, and in your personal relationship with Jesus, this is the book. 

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